Man, I can hold grudges o. I still remember when I was specifically not asked to attend a primary school classmate’s party back in the day, and I have not responded to her numerous outreach efforts in the last two years. Yes, I know. I have issues. But, I am working on it though. As in, serious serious work in progress. In the course of my personal and professional lives, there have been some folks who I genuinely believed were unfair, unnecessarily cruel, highly negligent, not cool to me…and I took names. And I memorized them all. Tattooed them all on my back.